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Phalsarm's most well known ritual is writing one's thoughts for the day in a journal, and detailing what lesson one could take from the day's events. After doing this, a prayer to phalsarm may be offered. If something particularly valuable was learned that day, you can get up to a plus five on your roll to contact Phalsarm.
Another ritual for Phalsarm is the Learner's Cant, typically spoken before a lesson, most often by students being led in the cant by their teacher. Though this usually does not actually draw Phalsarm, it is said that it enjoys watching people learn. It can also be performed before an altar to attempt to establish communications.
Very common for adventurers, the Ritual of guidance is a very specific ritual. One must burn a torch, completely out and use its ash and a bit of water to paint a perfect circle. After meditating within the circle over the answer to your question, usually a very specific and straightforward message, sometimes Phalsarm will answer with a bit of guidance to help your way.
Like all celestials, Phalsarm speaks almost entirely in signs, almost never giving answers in absolute. One must interpret the will of the celestials in most part...